Hi Mr. righteous,
After the previous day meeting & greeting, I am mighty impressed with your “Fusion thinking . Early I didn’t pay attention to your bio- data but after meeting you in personal I was literally drawn towards it.You know why? Because I wanted to understand your mind.
On paper you academic qualifications looks impressive. That’s actually the reason why my parents shortlisted you at the first place. I am sorry to say after our meeting I have come to a realization that you are a ‘literate ‘ man but not ‘educated’. You want a beautiful & professional girl.Nothing wrong in that.But you mentioned ‘Virgin’ ( ya, not the word .Yet your 10 minutes long monologue clearly indicated towards your dire need of an untouched Virgin girl ). Before this question is answered or even discussed, I find it extremely intrusive & humiliating. You are a rank stranger to me & asking such question in disguise is completely out of line.
Actually what are you looking for? A life partner or an alter ego. Clear that in your mind first. I think only two kinds of people would come up with such an idea.First , who never had a girl in his life & totally sucked at being friends with the fairer sex. Hence taking out his frustration here so that his partner doesn’t get to know his fears & weakness. OR you had way too many ‘action’ in your life that now being with a girl who is totally naive is your last wish.Either ways its sickening !!
Now coming back to the girl’s virginity.There is some confusion.It is the physical virginity you meant.FYI I lost my mental virginity to Tom cruise when I saw him in ‘Top Gun’. Did u hear this song ….
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What if your ‘Virgin ‘ wife thinks about someone else when you two get intimate?Will that ok with you? Does that account for infidelity? Think about it.
Again, cosying up, going on dates, hanging out together is acceptable.Right ?
Your future wife could ask you the same question. Are you Virgin By the way? Biologically, you don’t even have that ‘Seal proof’ system to prove your point. How are you going to prove yourself? Hmm?. Some test ( there is none .alas !! ), an oath or what? I am sure you must have ‘saved’ yourself for special someone. The point is PROVE IT? Can you?
Your whole idea of a good life partner hangs on a petty issue . Its not the character of the girl that you suspect.Its your upbringing , your values & your mind set that reflects in your action. You are well aware of the fact that a boy’s virginity can neither be tested nor proved .So why not put the whole burden of being righteous & pious on the poor girl . Make her live under constant scrutinizing & fear for rest of her life . Control her each & every action , her life , even every single breath she takes . It is an extremely effective & socially accepted way of suppressing your life partner .
It would have been nicer if you would have asked for an HIV test. It’s logical & progressive. It would have earned you few brownie points & lots of respect. I will have to admit, you not only failed miserably at being a prospective life partner but are ineligible for being a friend even.
I can just hope that one fine day someone knocks some sense in your frozen mind & clears all cobwebs.Until than god blesses you
A beautiful , slim,gori, professionally successful (but never going to be your wife ) Girl
(P.s – This virginity test can fool you. Don’t believe me. Have you heard of Hymenorrhaphy? Nope .Google it and Get well soon :D )